MIND MODES® MATCHMAKING
Because love isn't enough if you don't understand each other.
Matchmaking backed by Mind Modes®, so your match is based on how your mind works, not just what you say you want.
A few faces from our pool:
What is Mind Modes® Matchmaking?
A different way to find your person. Backed by Mind Modes®, a system developed from neuroscience, cognitive and behavioural psychology, emotional intelligence, and coaching psychology. Done by hand. Hear it straight from Ivy.
Chemistry starts it. Understanding keeps it.
Two people can feel chemistry and still keep misunderstanding each other. That's not bad luck. That's a pattern.
Most dating apps match you on what you look like and what you say you want. We go deeper. We look at how your mind works, how you communicate under pressure, and what you actually need in a relationship, not just what sounds good on paper.
That's what makes this different from anything else out there. That's the power of Mind Modes®.
What is Mind Modes®?
Most relationship problems aren't about not loving each other enough. They're about not understanding how each other's mind works.
Mind Modes® is a cognitive and stress pattern system grounded in neuroscience. It maps how you think, how you communicate, and how you behave under pressure, in relationships and in life.
When two people understand their own patterns, and each other's, everything changes. The arguments make sense. The silences make sense. The connection deepens.
That's what we use to match you. And that's what sets this apart from every other matchmaking service out there.
Meet Ivy
I'm Ivy Aulia, founder of Mind Modes® and the person behind every introduction made here.
Every profile is reviewed by me personally. Every match starts with what you are genuinely looking for, your lifestyle, your preferences, the kind of person you are naturally drawn to.But it does not stop there.
Once there is mutual interest, I go deeper. Using Mind Modes®, I look at how each person thinks, communicates, and behaves in relationships. Not to override the attraction, but to give it a real foundation. So that when you meet, you are not just hoping it works. You already understand something real about each other.
This is for you if...
Done with the apps
Apps haven't worked. You're ready for something more intentional.
Chemistry isn't enough
You want something real. Not just chemistry. Someone you can actually build a life with.
Same story, different person
You keep ending up in the same dynamic no matter who you date. You don't know why, but you're ready for something different.
Ready for real depth
Not just seen. You want someone who actually understands how your mind works.
How it works
1. Register and fill in your profile
Tell us about yourself, your lifestyle, and what you're looking for in a partner. Free, no commitment.
2. We review and look for a match
We go through your profile and look for someone whose criteria and lifestyle align with yours. No algorithm. Real human review.
3. If there's a match, we reach out
We contact both of you privately and share each other's photos. No pressure. You decide if you want to take the next step.
4. Check your compatibility
If you're both interested, we invite you to take the Mind Modes® Love & Relationship Assessment. USD 29. This is where we look at how your minds work together, not just what you want on paper.
5. Receive your results and decide
We share your compatibility report with both of you. From here you can connect directly, or choose to book a joint consultation together to understand each other even more deeply.
When we find your match.
Before you meet, we invite both of you to take a Mind Modes® Compatibility Assessment. This is where we go beyond first impressions and look at how your minds actually work together. It makes all the difference.
Compatibility Assessment & Report
$15
This is the foundation of every introduction we make. Each person pays USD 15 to complete the Mind Modes® Love & Relationship Self-Assessment separately.
We then combine both results into one compatibility report, showing how your thinking patterns, communication styles, and stress responses interact with each other. You each receive the full combined report before you meet.
Joint Consultation
$150
A guided session with Ivy for both of you together. We walk through your compatibility report, how your thinking patterns interact, and what to be mindful of as you get to know each other. This is where understanding each other stops being guesswork.
Loved the experience? Share a short video review and receive a voucher code for 50% off. Details shared after booking.
Their story started here.
Real introductions. Real connections. Here's what our members say.
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Ready to find someone who truly gets you?
Join the pool. We will reach out when we find your match. Registration is free. You only pay when there's a real match waiting.
Questions you might have
If you don't find your answer here, reach out directly at [email protected]. We're happy to help.
Is registration really free?
Yes. You fill in your profile and join the pool at no cost. You only pay when we find a match and both of you want to move forward.
How long does it take to find a match?
It depends on the pool. We don't rush the process. When we find someone genuinely compatible, we reach out. This could take weeks or longer. Good things take time.
Will my photo be visible to other members?
When you register, you consent to your photo being displayed within our private member pool. This means other registered members may see your profile as part of the matching process. Your photo will never be shared publicly or outside the pool without your separate explicit permission.
What is Mind Modes® and why does it matter?
Mind Modes® is a cognitive and stress pattern system that maps how you think, communicate, and behave under pressure. We use it to match people not just on preferences, but on how their minds actually work together. Learn more at mindmodes.com.
What if there's no match for me yet?
We will always be honest with you. If the pool doesn't have a compatible match yet, we'll let you know. As the pool grows, so do your chances.
Can I cancel or reschedule my Joint Consultation?
Yes. Cancellations more than 48 hours before your session receive a full refund. Between 24 and 48 hours, 50% refund. Less than 24 hours, no refund. Rescheduling is free with at least 48 hours notice. Full details in our Terms & Conditions.
Is this only for people in Bali or Lombok?
Not at all. While many of our members are based in or visiting Bali, Lombok, and the Gili Islands, the process is fully online. If there's a compatible match, we'll make the introduction regardless of location.
What happens after the introduction?
That's up to you both. We give you each other's contact details and you take it from there. If you'd like support understanding each other better first, the Joint Consultation is available as an optional next step.
Still have questions?
Reach out directly. We're happy to help.
For businesses and organisations
Interested in integrating Mind Modes® into your matchmaking platform, dating service, or HR system? We are open to licensing partnerships and collaborations.
Reach out at [email protected] with the subject line "Partnership Enquiry" and we will get back to you.
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